I am just updating this because I'm so astounded to see the photos Liz McCusker posts.
Steve was my friend, and we continue to have so many mutual friends.....some of whom like to send me things (since I don't use facebook myself). I just wish he didn't constantly look so miserable.
Wan smiles. Small smiles with his mouth, that don't reach his eyes (we all know about that-----pictures of people who smile with their mouth but unhappiness shows in their eyes).
Steve has a long history of being unfaithful to poor Liz....as well as a history of lying to her and others.
In my opinion, these photos seem like a desperate attempt to show the world a happy marriage-------in spite of her husband's statements that the marriage has never been happy and that he felt forced into it. Remember, Steve McCusker has stated on several occasions----including under oath----that he had broken up with Liz and intended to leave her permanently, and then she came to him and announced she was pregnant. He told me many times he felt she set him up......a statement I discount because I believe in personal responsibility and it takes two to tango.
For YEARS, every picture Liz McCusker has posted of her and her husband shows her leaning into him, putting her arms around him, or attempting to sit on his lap. There hasn't been one photo of him drawing her close to him.
If this was my husband, I wouldn't be advertising this by posting such photos. [Perhaps this will change very shortly----since I know Liz reads this web site. Maybe she'll shortly be making Steve put his arms around her for a picture!!!!!]. Recently she changed a caption on an old photo saying that she was "comforting" him, a thought he absolutely denied at the time the photo was taken.
Moreover, I'd be examining my relationship with a man who has a history of lying to me. Now that I think about it, that's precisely what I did with Steve! I didn't like being lied to by an old friend, because that's not what friends do to each other. And similarly, I wouldn't stay in a poor marital relationship. Steve and I have talked about this a lot over the decades....is Liz in love with Steve himself, or with the concept of being married? When they were separated, it always seemed to me that Liz couldn't stand the idea of getting divorced, because she associated some kind of stigma with that.
Normal marriages include two people BOTH working towards common goals. One partner just taking a free ride will never, ever work in the long run. The partner who has to get up in the morning and go out the door will never be happy and will get resentful. So resentful that he/she may learn to lie about a lot of things, including whom he's talking with.
Sometimes there's lying by omission, sometimes there's lying by commission, and sometimes there's a bit of both.
Steve was my friend, and we continue to have so many mutual friends.....some of whom like to send me things (since I don't use facebook myself). I just wish he didn't constantly look so miserable.
Wan smiles. Small smiles with his mouth, that don't reach his eyes (we all know about that-----pictures of people who smile with their mouth but unhappiness shows in their eyes).
Steve has a long history of being unfaithful to poor Liz....as well as a history of lying to her and others.
In my opinion, these photos seem like a desperate attempt to show the world a happy marriage-------in spite of her husband's statements that the marriage has never been happy and that he felt forced into it. Remember, Steve McCusker has stated on several occasions----including under oath----that he had broken up with Liz and intended to leave her permanently, and then she came to him and announced she was pregnant. He told me many times he felt she set him up......a statement I discount because I believe in personal responsibility and it takes two to tango.
For YEARS, every picture Liz McCusker has posted of her and her husband shows her leaning into him, putting her arms around him, or attempting to sit on his lap. There hasn't been one photo of him drawing her close to him.
If this was my husband, I wouldn't be advertising this by posting such photos. [Perhaps this will change very shortly----since I know Liz reads this web site. Maybe she'll shortly be making Steve put his arms around her for a picture!!!!!]. Recently she changed a caption on an old photo saying that she was "comforting" him, a thought he absolutely denied at the time the photo was taken.
Moreover, I'd be examining my relationship with a man who has a history of lying to me. Now that I think about it, that's precisely what I did with Steve! I didn't like being lied to by an old friend, because that's not what friends do to each other. And similarly, I wouldn't stay in a poor marital relationship. Steve and I have talked about this a lot over the decades....is Liz in love with Steve himself, or with the concept of being married? When they were separated, it always seemed to me that Liz couldn't stand the idea of getting divorced, because she associated some kind of stigma with that.
Normal marriages include two people BOTH working towards common goals. One partner just taking a free ride will never, ever work in the long run. The partner who has to get up in the morning and go out the door will never be happy and will get resentful. So resentful that he/she may learn to lie about a lot of things, including whom he's talking with.
Sometimes there's lying by omission, sometimes there's lying by commission, and sometimes there's a bit of both.